We are seeing many Father's Day messages and Father's Day is indeed a day to celebrate. Fatherhood is among the most rewarding experiences in our lives but at times can be trying. Today's culture of alternate types of families can make navigating child rearing a challenge. Here are some of my thoughts on what we should never forget as fathers.
Always love your child's mother. This will teach your son's to treat women with respect. For your daughters it will teach them that they deserve respect. Even if you are divorced, treat your child's mom with respect.
Your children need to see you lead. You set the examples. Leading doesn't mean being the boss. Leading means keeping a good attitude in the face of adversity, telling the truth, accepting difficult situations while not losing your temper and working hard.
You need to be present. You must be involved in their school work, in their social life and in all areas of their life. Again, if you are divorced, you must overcome your sense of discomfort and remain a constant presence in the life of your children.
You need to affirm them. They need to know that you love them, that you are proud of them and they need your words of encouragement. My daughter is now 30 and comments regularly about the support that she received from her mother and I by instilling in her that she can accomplish anything
Celebrate your day with your children and regularly assess their needs and how you can support them! Happy Father's Day.
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