It's a time when most of us our celebrating our fathers or our children are celebrating with us. Most fathers have had a profound influence on our lives. My Dad wasn't a man of many words but when he spoke he demanded that I paid attention and remembered what he said. I found his expectations to be daunting as a child but as an adult I am thankful for the lessons. Here are a few. Please note, I have paraphrased some to eliminate the "descriptive" language!
1. If you wonder what I would think, don't do it!
2. There will always be people more talented than you, but, they shouldn't be able to out work you.
3. Don't lie to me. I can help you if I know the truth, but, I won't help you if you lie because I won't know what the truth is.
4. Get it right the first time. Some mistakes will kill you. You can't fix it if you're dead.
5. Make a decision. Worrying won't make your decision any better. The doubt will make you less effective once you make it.
6. Respect everyone. Fear no one.
7. Accept it if you screw up. Hiding it won't fix it. Some things can't be fixed. Don't dwell on it. Move on.
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